Do you ever look at people and say, "Wow, they're really pretty!" But the second you look in the mirror you see a mistake? A joke? A waste of air and space? Do you ever say you're ugly because that's how you truly feel about yourself but then someone says you're beautiful out of pity? I hate my body. I hate my voice. I hate my thoughts. I hate myself. I do need someone to talk to. I do need help. But I'm not afraid to admit that. Please, tell me what to do, because I don't know. However, I don't want anyone's pity. I want someone who truly understands what I'm going through. Please.

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Yeah, but beauty standards are different everywhere. Some places shaving women with hairy legs is popular. Those people are only beautiful compared to some. Like the number 100 is big compared to 1, while 100 is tiny compared to 9,848,475,948,493. Even 1 is a big number compared to .00002318. Anywho, are pretty faces really a match for a beautiful heart? Would you rather marry a hot but spoiled snob, or an ugly but sweet kind person? Think about that, and try not to judge yourself by looks. It not like you can help it or not. What you can help is whether you're nice or not. What do you want people to think of you?

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