Do you ever look at people and say, "Wow, they're really pretty!" But the second you look in the mirror you see a mistake? A joke? A waste of air and space? Do you ever say you're ugly because that's how you truly feel about yourself but then someone says you're beautiful out of pity? I hate my body. I hate my voice. I hate my thoughts. I hate myself. I do need someone to talk to. I do need help. But I'm not afraid to admit that. Please, tell me what to do, because I don't know. However, I don't want anyone's pity. I want someone who truly understands what I'm going through. Please.

 
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Yeah, but beauty standards are different everywhere. Some places shaving women with hairy legs is popular. Those people are only beautiful compared to some. Like the number 100 is big compared to 1, while 100 is tiny compared to 9,848,475,948,493. Even 1 is a big number compared to .00002318. Anywho, are pretty faces really a match for a beautiful heart? Would you rather marry a hot but spoiled snob, or an ugly but sweet kind person? Think about that, and try not to judge yourself by looks. It not like you can help it or not. What you can help is whether you're nice or not. What do you want people to think of you?

I am not going to say Im sorry or anything as it would be useless. It is not something you can change easily when its all in your head. I understand the feeling when people compliment you, you just either fill yourself with sadness or annoyance. I never thought those comments as the truth. I cant even look at the mirror, at my own reflection. I wish I can help but truth to be told, I cant. I am here if you want to talk though. Its better to have someone to release that kind of stress to.

I am not going to say Im sorry or anything as it would be useless. It is not something you can change easily when its all in your head. I understand the feeling when people compliment you, you just either fill yourself with sadness or annoyance. I never thought those comments as the truth. I cant even look at the mirror, at my own reflection. I wish I can help but truth to be told, I cant. I am here if you want to talk though. Its better to have someone to release that kind of stress to.

Well about the thought thing your thoughts might being negatively manipulated by something or someone, spiritually(if it's not a mental disease or any type of pysichal disease it's spiritual)

Sometimes we have a wrong idea of ourselves, for some reason, usually because of the way other people treats us and or because of beauty standards. Sometimes we are sure we look really good when then realize, later, we actually didn't look that good. Sometimes we are really positively sure of our evident uglyness only to find out later on that we weren't actually that ugly and regreting not having a better selfsteem before. And, sometimes we don't know or boundaries , ending up thinking that others are extensions of ourselves. For example, if someone thinks we are ugly we end up believing it even if we weren't really ugly, just as we might believe we are beautiful just because someone thinks we are beautiful. We end up taking their opinions as if it was ours, substituting the notion we have of ourselves for the notion tha other people have of us.
 

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