I want to break up with my bf, but we've only been together for 6 months and I feel like it's too short. That it's embarrassing to be with someone less than a year. I don't know if anyone else feels that way. 

I knew we were different from the start, but I guess my impression of him in the beginning turned out to be wrong. He's kind to me and I know he loves me, but I feel that he's not right for me, almost like he's dragging me down.

I do think he's attractive, but his taste in clothes/stuff is awful, so much that I feel embarrassed when I'm outside with him. The worst part, though, is how he acts around people. I met him through tinder so I didn't know this before it was "too late", but he's incredibly awkward around people and has no interest in getting to know people. This is hard for me because I am a very social person but at the same time I struggle with anxiety, so "talking for two" doesn't help me. I want to be together with someone who makes it easier for me to talk with people, not harder. 

When we're alone things are nice. He's kind and caring and we have fun together just us, but it's not enough for me. I feel bad for feeling this way, and I don't know what to do - I'm not in love anymore, but I act as if I am and I don't think my boyfriend notices that I am having doubts. I don't know if it's right to break up now (I actually think I would if I didn't feel ashamed) or just wait some more months.. 

 
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Girl, six months is a huge time to reject someone! Maybe you could send him a breakup notification using this site anonymously and wait for his response. :-P Thats what I did earlier and there was a sudden change in my GF's behavior after that breakup feedback stuff, she become more receptive towards me!

Hi ya Girl you have got to get rid doesn't matter how long you av been with him if he is not the one then tell him and move on the longer you leave it the harder its gonna be once done you will feel so much better DO IT X
 

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